I simply can't resist blogging about this topic, as this is a re-occurring theme in conversations with many people we meet... and it tickles my humor every time!
If we are to think back, our home would have had many many live in staff members to run it efficiently, ok so I agree that some roles are easily replaced by the modern family, that of a private chef for example. But other roles, still need filling, such as keeping the fires going, maintaining the grounds, cleaning the house and meeting and greeting visitors. These roles are now all covered by Doug, Viv, Guy and myself... and this makes for a huge amount of work.
To quantify this a little I thought it would be interesting to put this into a few facts and figures. This winter alone we have burned through almost 3 tonnes of coal (this is addition to 1,000 litres of oil a month!), this coal is delivered to ground level, it then has to be hand lifted down a flight of stairs into the basement, and then lifted up a flight of stairs in buckets on an almost daily basis. This is a task that falls mainly on Doug's shoulders and there's no doubt it helps to keep him fit!
In addition we have used a room full of wood, which has been chopped up throughout the year (several days are assigned to 'wood chopping') this wood is then moved up to ground level, again on an almost daily basis.
These jobs would have usually been taken up by many people to help the house run efficiently and smoothly, yet today they are all jobs that we, the family, cover between ourselves. And all this effort keeps the house at a balmy 16oC on an average day in winter when we have no one else in the house.... we manage a few degrees warmer when we are or open for business - event days are bliss as we sometimes reach the dizzy heights of 20oC and you'll find myself and Viv stripping off our thermals in shock at the heat in our house!
I considered the topic for this blog while in the bath the other day, it was freezing cold outside, and not particularly warm in my bathroom, which although beautiful is one of the more chilly rooms we reside in. I can't remember the last exotic holiday we had, and we frequently are exhausted from the level of work that we have put in over the last 5 years to turn the estate round to a now functioning and well known home it is becoming.
However, I really don't want to shatter the illusion, so in answer to the question "it must be so glamorous living in your home" yes of course it is! And yes, of course we dress for dinner, which is, obviously signaled by the ringing of the gong... isn't it the same in everyone's home?
So next time you see the lights on on a Sunday evening think of us dining in around our family table, resplendent in our gowns, if not ever so slightly compromised by the thermal leggings and welly boots underneath!!
So it's official, the third and final planning application is now live, and this is told to the world by the prominent display of a yellow laminated sign at the bottom of the driveway. In addition everyone who has previously commented on past applications will have been notified that we have withdrawn the old application, I expect also leading to the notification that we are back in planning, again!
Throughout this process we have seen those who are avidly against our plans object strongly, several support strongly, and many say that they really just don't mind what we are doing.... If I recall correctly the ratio of objectors at the last outing represented a total of 2.5% of the local community.
Those who pass comment verbally that they don't really mind what we do, and in some cases even say what a good idea it is, often don't think it's worth logging on to air their views in a public manner. However, the consequence of no action is that the negatives become so much more overpowering and the case 'for' can easily be overwhelmed by the public case being made against.
Human nature is often to take the easy path, and doing nothing is always the easiest route by far! But when you are tackling something as large as a place like this then support from those around you is absolutely invaluable. Word of mouth as to how good your services are is a good example of such support, and so much of our business thus far has come via word of mouth referrals, on both the James Place and Penton Park front....
We genuinely and passionately believe that the path we are on is the right one for Penton Lodge, we care about keeping the house open to the disabled community via James's Place and we also believe that it is a house absolutely suitable for hosting parties and events.
Several objections on previous versions of our application, have cited James Place as failing, yet those objectors have never once asked about the attendance levels at our day care centre. Others have said how detrimental the events are to our members, yet they have never talked to our members and asked them what they think, and whilst they may have a learning or physical disability this doesn't mean they don't have a worthy opinion of their own.
At the moment the supporters are winning out with a 3-1 ratio in favor which is a rather enjoyable position to be in, however i'm sure it won't be too long until some familiar names lodge some familiar comments!
If you are interested in tracking the application to see what all the fuss is about then you can do so by clicking here and entering our planning reference which is: 14/02418/FULLN
When I reached this stage in my life I thought i'd be facing the challenges of keeping an air of calm when trying to negotiate with the logic of a toddler (for those without children the trick is that there is no logic). However, I find myself trying to muster the energy to battle through a list of objections to my husband’s family homes planning. Each time I log on to the online planning portal I wonder how many more we will have received (8 households objecting, and 11 individuals at present in case you wondered - representing around 2.5% of the population of our village based on the number of homes).
Now whilst there are some that present worthy questions, which we have tried to address, there are a few which really and truly make me feel most welcome in the village we call home, my top two:
1. "If the residents of Penton Lodge cannot afford to maintain it as it stands, with more than generous allowances for activities beyond private dwelling and as a school, then they should sell" Mr and Mrs Patterson of Fairfield, Newbury Hill
I wonder if it has been considered that the vast number of properties such as ours frequently have to find a commercial path to a sustainable future, and I wonder if this view is one maintained for all proprerties countrywide?
Do the Earl and Countess of Carnarvon, who reside up the road at Highclere Castle fall into the same category with the fabulous feature of Downton Abbey, plus numerous other events, and, yes you've guessed it, Weddings. It is worth bearing in mind that Penton Lodge has had a commerical use since the mid 1940's. I wonder if Mr and Mrs Patterson watch Downton Abbey, or visit with friends for a tour of this beautiful castle, or perhaps they attend the Battle of the Proms night that they hold each year?
I note that Mr and Mrs Patterson actually attended our own Proms in 2014 where they danced the night away in the second row from the front, we hosted this for little commercial gain, and more for a chance for the village to enjoy an event in our beautiful grounds. Interesting that in their objection, available on the link below they comment that there were two extremely loud events one that was "loud in [their] house and obviously and almost painfully loud in the grounds of Penton Lodge, enough to make conversation very difficult and a matter of shouting - clearly the organisers have no consideration for local residents"
I assume this is referring to the Proms, as it was the only event in the grounds, now I simply must figure out how to upload those pictures of them dancing throughout the event, I only wish we were in a court of law as i'm sure even a novice barrister would have a jolly old time discrediting this witness from the stand!
Next time perhaps they should move further back so the music isn't so objectionably loud?
2. "I believe that Penton Lodge stands at a point in its immensely long history when it requires our responsible care and protection. To allow it to be altered in order to accommodate a third commercial use will result in the loss of the invaluable character and appearance of this grade II listed building. This important part of the conservation area and existing rural scenic views, that we so admire and enjoy, will be lost for us and future generations" Ms Pauffley of The Smithy goes so far as to say that our application will be "to the lasting detriment of the house, the village, and the conservation area, if this proposal is not challenged and turned down"
I note that Ms Pauffley made no offer to buy the property when it was for considered for sale in 2009 (my husbands family kept it in the end, as the recession dealt us a twist of fate for which I think we will be eternally grateful) nor did she offer any "responsible care and protection" when this house was in so dire need and on the open market.... but we did... and isn't she lucky that we did? It might have actually fallen down (the 20ft listing chimney had the true potential to take out a third of the building) and then there wouldn't have been any weddings to worry about, let alone twenty in a calender year.
It is mine and my husband’s children who are the future of this house, we are raising them here and it is here that they will grow into adults. Being brought up understanding the lifestyle and compromises they will have to make to keep a house like this alive means that I rest easy in my bed at night knowing that this important piece of history is indeed preserved for us and future generations.
There are too many comments for me to continue without risk of boring the socks off any reader, and I must prepare for our meeting with the planners on Thursday. But know this, contrary to the objectors, James's Place is thriving (no one ever asked for the facts, but some have assumed our day care is failing), we have nothing but the best interests of our home in mind, and we will succeed in saving this house and yes that will be via a commercial use on the ground floor.
Perhaps we should give up on the whole idea of twenty weddings, maybe we should open for the residential educational rehabilitation of drug addicts and young offenders (readers should note that this is permitted in our current planning zone). I'm not sure our friendly neighbours have considered this path for our home, but if they really don't want weddings..... As one person said in the parish council meeting "better the devil you know".
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